I was born and living with my parents till age of 3, after my sister's birth, my father and mother got separated and years later got divorced and i started living in my mother's house. Even i had a father, i didnt get what a child should get.
Childhood was good and happy. Uncles were loving and caring. But later situation starts changing, my grandfather used to beat my mother most of the days, he didn't allow her to do her tailor works from home. I started working in std booth at the age of 12 payment 300 per month, from then onwards i worked in many places including internet cafe, shops till my master degree. During my master degree most of the days i was not having enough money to have my food. I started working on first it firm for a salary of 3000 per month for 1 year ( during recession) and a job was needed for me. I jumbed from x to y companies during my first 3 years, but no significant increase in my salary. I joined in a government firm and worked there for 4 years, salary 8000. ( An mca graduate with 7 yrs experience). I have to provide complete financial support for my sister by availing loan same year my great supporter grandmother died on the same day my mother got discharged from hospital. Hard days. Financial assistance for sisters pregnancy . During these days i was earning only 8000.Hard days with empty pocket. Resigned my government job. Went to dubai, searched for job after a month, recieved a job in software company which lasted only for 1.5 years. During this time i lost my own house to my uncle then we were forced to go to a rental home. Both kerala flood effected my rental home. I lost my job in Dubai and 2 month was horrible. Returned to india after 3 months joined in x company, during covid again i lost job. Did some freelance work with friends during these days since i need to pay rent atleast. After some months joined in y company. I settled all loans before entering my life with aswathi, my focus on buying a home didnt alter. Many loses in 2022 including cancellation of my marriage in dec then depression . After a great struggle now i am able to buy my dream home by my own in my home town for 50 lakhs in dec 2022.
